Importance Of Having A Good WingMan
By:
Michael The Dating Wizard
Man, you have no idea how much I treasure my wingman.
Do I do pickup alone?
Yes, often.
But having a wingman is FUN . And a wingman is not just the guy who is
actually out with you talking to the girl's friends while you chat her up; he is the guy that EXUDES POSITIVE SOCIAL PRESSURE on you.
Even though I've been doing this stuff for years, sometimes I don't feel like heading out when I really should be heading out. So for
example, there might be an event I know where higher quality women will be attending, but I have had a long day, a hard workout, or whatever and
I feel like chilling out. And my emotions will try to play games on me, like making me yawn and give me fake "proof" that I should stay
home.
My wingman on the phone though won't have it, and so I go, and we both have
such a great time meeting women of quality that I can't BELIEVE I was 'thinking of not going that night.
And of course, I do the same for my wingman. Such is the power of YOUR SOCIAL
ENVIRONMENT.
This is just one of the reasons taking my Boot camp is so powerful. You are IMMERSED in the right environment, the right social forces, as you
are getting in person my positive social pressure on you.
You will feel MY vibes on YOU. It will CHANGE YOUR STATE and you will
EXPERIENCE what this feels like for REAL . Never mind all the other TONS of stuff you will learn on SPECIFICS from how to approach to how
to deal with her friends to how to dress to make impact, to how to escalate to getting physical.
Being in the right social environment is HUGE. You TAKE ON the subtleties of attitude and skills almost through osmosis this way. I believe
these skills are learned SOCIALLY, and so having an EXPERT by your side, and then taking you into social venues with lots of women, you start to
pick up so many things its crazy.
All the factors interact, i.e. your instruction, my social impact on you,
the social things you are learning from the women themselves, be it regarding humor, vibe, being laid back, all the stuff you are picking up even
from the vibes of the venue, the club, the clothing, the music, the vibe, the décor. It's all part of it.
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