Your Reality. Your World. Your Lifestyle.
By: Mark Redman

Mark is the author of the excellent report "The Truth About College Game" as well as the bestselling "Conquer Your Campus Training Manual".

What I’m going to talk to you about in this article is something that I expand on hugely in my Conquer Your Campus Training Manual. It makes all the difference in the world, but chances are, it’s something you haven’t given much thought to.

What’s that?

Your REALITY. Your WORLD. Your LIFESTYLE.

A quick thought experiment, if you will..

If a stranger came up to your door right now and told you he was going to be living with you for the next week, what would be in store for him?

The best week of his life? The lamest? Or somewhere in between?

At the end of it, would he be begging to stay and just chill with you, or would he be clawing his way out of your place so that he could get back to his life.

Hmm.

Ok, now the bottom line is this. In college, girls are looking for a piece of your reality. They are looking for a cool guy to whisk them away. They are looking for more than just sex and status, they are looking for someone to lead them on the adventure of their lifetime.

They want to live the good life - and as a girl - the way they do it is by finding a guy who provides the lifestyle. But in college, it’s not about money, it’s all about fun. It’s all about excitement. It’s all about just having a life that’s too much fun NOT to be living.

So how do you live that life?

It’s all about passion, purpose, and self expression. It’s all about maximizing every goddamn nanosecond of the day and engineering it for MAX fun.

It’s about having your favorite songs playing at all times on full blast cus it’s jus who you are and that’s the way it is. And you fucking love it.

It’s about having lunches with big groups of friends lined up every day for the next few WEEKS.

It’s about having your sunday breakfast spot, taking everyone there and telling them how amazing the pancakes are and making sure they get the killer syrup.

It’s about being the guy who always knows what’s going on and when.

It’s about having a fashion sense that’s uniquely yours.

It’s about doing what FEELS good - because it FEELS good. And for no other reason.

It’s about taking your guys and girls out to a new club that no one in the area has been to yet, and making Wednesday nights THE night to go to this new place.

It’s about grabbing all your boys and getting a trip to hooters together for no Fucking reason

It’s about DESIGNING YOUR LIFE. Designing a life that’s so thrilling that everyone else BEGS to be a part of it. It’s about designing the type of reality, where no matter what you’re doing, you are living life to the max.

People can smell this a mile away. They know when a dude is just DIFFERENT. And they gravitate toward him.

Most guys go to college, drink some beers, play some madden, watch tv, surf the web, hope something good happens to them or that they meet someone who can fill some sort of hole in their life and provide some excitement.

But the reality is…it’s up to YOU to MAN UP AND BUILD YOUR LIFE.

When you build it - for the right reasons - THEY (the girls, the chill friends, the college experience you had hoped for) will come.

No more bitching, moaning, or hoping things will change. The change starts today. And it starts with YOU. RIGHT NOW.

You see, you could have all the game in the world, but if you don’t have a life that you’re not 150% fucking JAZZED about living, then you’re not going to get the type of girl that you KNOW you deserve.

Because think about it. If you “Get” her, she’s going to find out the type of life you’re living. This ain’t the city, where you can just date a girl and then lure her into your reality slowly but surely, hiding things about you that might be geeky or weird or just straight LAME. (think 40 year old virgin)

In college, one of the biggest factors is LIFESTYLE. Everyone is tuned into the lifestyle that everyone else is living.

It’s all out there in broad daylight.

The question is…

How do you roll??

If you’re not rolling to the max. If you’re not conciously building your masterpiece of a life, then what the hell ARE you doing?

You only get to go through college once - why not literally make it a MASTERPIECE.

Why not build a lifestyle. A reality. A world. That’s soooo engaging that girls can’t resist wanting to take a big bite out of it.

Kickass food. Kick ass friends. Adventures. Road trips. Xbox 360 tournaments. Ping pong. Beer Pong. Parties.

Look, there’s a ton of stuff that you’re going to learn to get better with women, but the fastest way to turn it all around is to build your life. Because everything flows from it. EVERYTHING.

So get jazzed about it. Get pumped. How are you going to turn it around?

Are you walking around in your boxers half the day, going to class in shitty sweatpants, then eating greasy foods, only to come home to some netporn, hotpockets, and messing around on AIM, hoping word of a good frat party comes orund?

Well than your life is Fucking Passing You By man. And no one’s going to stop and tell you until it’s too late.

You see, no one wants to tell you, because the type of live I just described is the type that 97% of the guys out there live. You want to be in the top 3%.

You want to be the type of guy who makes shit happen.

The type of guy who a girl would be fucking LUCKY to meet.

And there’s nothing fake about it, nothing phony. It’s au-naturallllll.

It’s about building the most compelling possible reality, not for the girls, but for your self. And then letting others share it.

Build yourself an MTV-cribs style place…and then let everyone just party in it, metaphorically speaking.

It’s when you ignite this passion for living life to the max. It’s when you build something this incredible, that all of the sudden, talking to chicks just ISNT THAT IMPORTANT. If you’ve always got something cooler to be doing than talking to her….than it’s going to work. You subcommunicate all the right things. But when talking to that girl is the highlight of your day, then you’re going to crash. I PROMISE THIS.

Look, I’ve been there. I’ve done that. And it’s not where you want to be.

So please, get up off your ass and start building your life out right now. What’s the first step you’re gonna take?

Do you need to clean up your room so that it’s a place where girls actually WANT to be.

Do you need to sign your ass up for a gym membership?

Do you need to start calling up those few people in your life who are just AWESOME and making sure that they are a part of your every day life?

Do you need to hop on google and start looking for some DOPE ass shit to do in your area.

Hell, do you need to just get my report or book and start getting your shit together from top to bottom?

YOU GET THE PICTURE.

So here’s what I want you to do. Get excited. Let your mind run free with cool ass shit you could do. And then, take that first step and start making it happen.

-Mark


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